My friend's daughter came to speak to me?

u sound like a very conciderate person and obviously someone who molly thinks she can confide in. when i started my period i was ashamed and felt dirty, so i kept it from my mum for a year and only told my 2 closest friends, but then finally i found the courage to tell her, and it made everything better, no more hiding, and i think that is what you need to tell molly, that things are better out in the open, and that her mum went through the same thing she did at that age, so there is nothing at all to be ashamed of. as for the bullying, i know how that feels aswell, and i feel so sorry for molly as she is only 12, but i think you need to have a talk with her mum and try and sort something out, because if molly doesnt then things will only get worse and more stressfull for molly. i dont know about her family background, so i cant say whether that has anything to do with her pulling her hair out, but i do certainly think that nora and kayla, the 2 very popular girls at school are a main cause to it aswell, and i think that you should tell her mum about that, or the school headteacher, or a counciler, or just someone, because this is alot of weight on your shoulders aswell. go with your heart and do what you think is right for molly. i hope things work out, and god bless, xx