My brothers wife died while giving birth to there twin boys i am flying out tonight to help him...?

My brother's wife gave birth to twin boys over the weekend and she had some complications well she ped away last night and so since i am a single mom of a two year old i am going up there with my son to help my brother out and everything. Well my parents are already there and i am just wondering if there is anything i should take that would help him out or anything like that. And my parents called this morning and said that they think maybe i should bring the boys home with me and that way my parents and i can take care of them while my brother grieves. But i think my brother might flip chit at that idea! What should i do? Advice?